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Family Law Separation Checklist – Ontario

Navigating a separation or divorce can be overwhelming. This checklist is designed to help you stay organized and informed as you begin the family law process in Ontario.

1. Get Legal Advice

Consult a family lawyer early to understand your rights and obligations
Ask about options: negotiation, mediation, arbitration, or court
Discuss timelines and costs

2. Gather Key Personal Information

Full legal names, dates of birth (you, spouse, and children)
Marriage certificate or cohabitation agreement
Date of marriage or start of cohabitation
Date of separation

3. Children & Parenting

Create a list of each child’s: full name, birthdate, school, and health needs
Consider parenting time (custody/access) preferences
Prepare for discussions on decision-making responsibility (formerly called custody)
Draft a parenting plan if possible

4. Financial Disclosure

Three most recent income tax returns and Notices of Assessment
Recent pay stubs or proof of income (employment, self-employment, or benefits)
Statements for all bank accounts, credit cards, loans, investments, pensions
Property valuations (real estate, vehicles, etc.)
List of debts and liabilities
Prepare a Net Family Property Statement if married

Helpful Tool

Ontario Family Law Form 13 – Financial Disclosure

5. Spousal or Child Support

Determine if support will be paid or received
Review income levels of both parties
Estimate support using calculators
Consider retroactive support or special expenses (e.g. daycare, health care)

6. Living Arrangements & Safety

Decide who stays in the home
Update household bills and address changes
Consider safety concerns (domestic violence, restraining orders, exclusive possession)
Contact shelters or legal aid if urgent support is needed

Helpful Links

Ontario 211 – Find Family Support Services in Your Area

7. Update Legal & Financial Documents

Wills and powers of attorney
Beneficiaries on insurance and pensions
Joint bank accounts and credit cards
Government records (CRA, Service Canada, health card, driver’s license)

8. Keep Communication Civil (If Possible)

Use written communication when possible
Consider a parenting app (e.g. OurFamilyWizard, Cozi)
Work with your lawyer to de-escalate conflict

Need Help Navigating Separation in Ontario?

At Gold Path Law, we provide experienced, compassionate legal guidance through every stage of your separation or divorce. Since 2012, we’ve helped clients across Ontario find clarity, protect their rights, and move forward with confidence.

Child & Spousal Support Calculator

Use the official Department of Justice Support Calculator to estimate support amounts based on income and parenting arrangements.

Link: https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/fl-df/child-enfant/look-rech.asp

Helpful Legal Links

Ontario Family Court Information: https://www.ontariocourts.ca/scj/practice/family/

Family Law Rules & Forms: https://www.ontario.ca/page/family-law-rules-forms

Family Responsibility Office (FRO): https://www.mcss.gov.on.ca/en/mcss/programs/familyResponsibility/